{"id":4720,"date":"2022-06-28T10:21:46","date_gmt":"2022-06-28T08:21:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/?p=4720"},"modified":"2022-06-28T10:21:47","modified_gmt":"2022-06-28T08:21:47","slug":"tarpukario-meiles-samprata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/de\/tarpukario-meiles-samprata\/","title":{"rendered":"Tarpukario meil\u0117s samprata"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tarpukario Lietuvoje vyravo kitokia meil\u0117s samprata nei dabar. Jei \u0161iandien daug k\u0105 lemia tarpusavio supratimas, charizma, i\u0161vaizda, statusas ar netgi turtas, tai tarpukariu svarbiausias veiksnys partnerio pasirinkimui buvo t\u0117v\u0173 valia. T\u0105 gerai atspindi i\u0161trauka i\u0161 vieno \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0117li\u0173 lai\u0161ko: \u201e[\u2026] Labai man smagu, kad Tamsta atkreipei \u012f mane d\u0117mesio ir, kad galiu padaryti Tamst\u0105 laimingu. Bet ne visuomet dviej\u0173 \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0117li\u0173 laim\u0117 pareina vien tik nuo j\u0173 meil\u0117s. Simpatija mano gimini\u0173 Tamstai atvirk\u0161\u010diai tur\u0117s didel\u0117s svarbos m\u016bs\u0173 meil\u0117je\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;T\u0117v\u0173 kriterijus da\u017eniausiai buvo ekonominis: idealiausias vaikinas \u2013 turtingas, darb\u0161tus \u016bkininkas. Deja, ne visi tuo metu gal\u0117jo pasigirti did\u017eiuliais turtais, tad b\u016bsimieji jaunikiai nenor\u0117dami likti be poros imdavosi gudrybi\u0173 \u2013 apsiskelbdavo es\u0105 turtingi. T\u0117vai, savo ruo\u017etu, va\u017eiuodavo tikrinti, klausin\u0117davo kaimyn\u0173 ir pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 ar b\u016bsimasis \u017eentas sako ties\u0105. Jei klasta i\u0161ai\u0161k\u0117davo, t\u0117vai sakydavo: \u201eNieko neradom, vien tik a\u0161aras\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meil\u0117s lai\u0161kuose, kuriuos yra sukaup\u0119s Taurag\u0117s kra\u0161to muziejus, taip pat atsispindi t\u0117v\u0173 palaiminimo santykiuose svarba. \u0160tai vaikinas i\u0161 Joni\u0161kio, susira\u0161in\u0117j\u0119s su tauragi\u0161ke j\u0105 smarkiai nuvyl\u0117 \u2013 gav\u0119s papildomo darbo negal\u0117jo nueiti \u012f sutart\u0105 pasimatytim\u0105, o an\u0173 laik\u0173 galimyb\u0117mis, netur\u0117jo kaip prane\u0161ti. Atsipra\u0161in\u0117jantis jaunikaitis net sudvejojo, ar jam negali atleisti mergina ar jos t\u0117vai: \u201e [\u2026] b\u016bt\u0173 mane i\u0161leid\u0119s b\u016b\u010diau gal\u0117j\u0119s jumis aplankyti ir Brangiausius t\u0117velius aplankyti. Ir su visais pasikalb\u0117ti ir a\u0161 manau, kad d\u0117l \u0161io prasikaltimo man atleis T\u0117veliai ir sesut\u0117 j\u016bs\u0173, a\u0161 jiems lai\u0161k\u0105 jau i\u0161siun\u010diau [\u2026], tai \u0161iandien v\u0117l ra\u0161iau antr\u0105 lai\u0161k\u0105, kad jie mano prasikaltim\u0105 atleist\u0173 [..]\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O kitas vaikinas i\u0161 \u0160iauli\u0173 ra\u0161\u0119s tai pa\u010diai tauragi\u0161kei labai steb\u0117josi jos po\u017ei\u016briu \u012f t\u0117vus: \u201eStasyte, a\u0161 dabartiniu laiku jau\u010diuosi labai neai\u0161kioj pad\u0117ty [\u2026] kame dalykas, kad j\u016bs mane kvie\u010diate tiktai savo nami\u0161kiams parodyti, o tas mano b\u016bvimas kaip matosi, \u012f jumis neturi jokios reik\u0161m\u0117s\u201d. Negana to, lai\u0161ke i\u0161ai\u0161k\u0117jo, jog mergina kviet\u0117 vaikin\u0105 pas j\u0105 \u012f namus b\u016btent tomis dienomis, kai jos nebus Taurag\u0117je, taigi \u2013 jaunikio atskiram susitikimui su jos t\u0117vais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dinoma, t\u0117vai buvo svarbi tarpusavio draugyst\u0117s dalis, bet nevienintel\u0117. Lai\u0161kuose i\u0161 abiej\u0173 pusi\u0173 nevengta spalving\u0173 frazi\u0173, jei santykis geresnis \u2013 rodyti ilgesio. Bendravimo prad\u017eioje vaikinai kartais prisipa\u017eindavo, kad susitikti tiesiog bijo (t\u0105 merginos vadindavo popierine draugyste). Vyravo labai pagarbus tonas net susipykus. Naudota daug ma\u017eybini\u0173 frazi\u0173. Vaikinai mylim\u0105sias vadindavo gerut\u0117mis, pupyt\u0117mis, du\u0161yt\u0117mis, panel\u0117mis, brangut\u0117mis, poniut\u0117mis, o merginos paprastai \u012f i\u0161rinkt\u0105j\u012f kreipdavosi Tamsta arba branguti, r\u016bpindavosi, kad vaikinas b\u016bt\u0173 sotus, sveikas ir, kad jam u\u017etekt\u0173 pinig\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\">Taurag\u0117s kra\u0161to muziejaus istorikas-etnografas Imantas Tamo\u0161auskas<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fotografijoje: Jurgio meil\u0117s lai\u0161kas K\u0105stytei gyvenan\u010diai Taurag\u0117je<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"615\" src=\"https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Jurgio-laiskas-Kastytei.-Taurage.-1927-m.-Is-Taurages-muziejaus-fondu-1024x615.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4721\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Jurgio-laiskas-Kastytei.-Taurage.-1927-m.-Is-Taurages-muziejaus-fondu-1024x615.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Jurgio-laiskas-Kastytei.-Taurage.-1927-m.-Is-Taurages-muziejaus-fondu-500x300.jpg 500w, https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Jurgio-laiskas-Kastytei.-Taurage.-1927-m.-Is-Taurages-muziejaus-fondu-768x461.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Jurgio-laiskas-Kastytei.-Taurage.-1927-m.-Is-Taurages-muziejaus-fondu-1536x923.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/tauragesmuziejus.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Jurgio-laiskas-Kastytei.-Taurage.-1927-m.-Is-Taurages-muziejaus-fondu-2048x1231.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tarpukario Lietuvoje vyravo kitokia meil\u0117s samprata nei dabar. Jei \u0161iandien daug k\u0105 lemia tarpusavio supratimas, charizma, i\u0161vaizda, statusas ar netgi turtas, tai tarpukariu svarbiausias veiksnys partnerio pasirinkimui buvo t\u0117v\u0173 valia. T\u0105 gerai atspindi i\u0161trauka i\u0161 vieno \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0117li\u0173 lai\u0161ko: \u201e[\u2026] Labai man smagu, kad Tamsta atkreipei \u012f mane d\u0117mesio ir, kad galiu padaryti Tamst\u0105 laimingu. 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Jei \u0161iandien daug k\u0105 lemia tarpusavio supratimas, charizma, i\u0161vaizda, statusas ar netgi turtas, tai tarpukariu svarbiausias veiksnys partnerio pasirinkimui buvo t\u0117v\u0173 valia. T\u0105 gerai atspindi i\u0161trauka i\u0161 vieno \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0117li\u0173 lai\u0161ko: \u201e[\u2026] Labai man smagu, kad Tamsta atkreipei \u012f mane d\u0117mesio ir, kad galiu padaryti Tamst\u0105 laimingu. 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